I have given up on writing resolutions, mostly because every year I write loose 20 lbs, live on a budget, have sparkling clean cabinets and closets, put scrapbooks together, cook more often and be a better person...... so, really, do I need to say those again???
Today on facebook I saw a picture and a quote from President Monson from Mormon.org. I wanted to share it here.
"Many people agree that the key to successful change is to set realistic goals and recognize achievement and progress when it is being made, no matter how small or insignificant it may appear to be."
So this year, I am not going to measure life by the yard. The scoreboard is unplugged. The comparison chart in my brain that I use when I see one of my amazingly talented friends do something I can not do and I suddenly feel like a failure is disconnected. I am going to use the mirror as my measure and I am going to listen to the spirit to guide me to do what the Lord needs me to do......an inch at a time. Two events this past year taught me the lesson of an inch at a time.
La Fortuna is a beautiful waterfall in the Costa Rican Jungle. It is amazing. The only issue with La Fortuna, is..... the stairs. I am not sure how many stairs there really are. Some say 400. Some say 500. Some say 900. One guide to the area just lists it as a "slippery and precipitous trail."
|My son Travis and I on the Great Wall|
I was on the trip with an amazing co-worker, Lauren, and her husband, Adam. We decided to head to the "harder" side of the wall as it was less crowded, and we were sure the views would be great. Most of our students took off to see how fast they could do the wall, so the three of us ventured off up the wall. At first, it was like everything we did in China. We would slap each other and jokingly say, "Hey! We are in CHINA!" The hike up the wall became harder and harder and steeper and steeper. My Colorado body was dripping in humidity sweat.
Lauren and Adam would pause for me to catch my breath. At times, I was tempted to just turn around. After all, I was in China. I was on the Great Wall. It was amazing and I had seen it. I could go back down and get a cold Orange Fanta and wait for the rest of the gang. But Lauren reminded me that I really wanted to get to the top. We wanted to go all the way up!!! We could do it, one step at a time, and we could stop anytime we wanted to. ( Now, my young friend Lauren had no trouble whipping up the wall, she was just being kind to her older friend....)
Then she said reminded me I was days away from turning 50. How cool to remember that the year I turned 50 I climbed the great wall of China. We did it. We hoofed it up the wall. I marveled at the scenery. I marveled at the architecture. I thought of those who lost their lives building that wall. I thought of those it defended in times of war. I was climbing history, and I had no idea if I would stand on that ground again in my life. I was going to the top.
One Step at a Time....
Now I was grateful to have my friend Lauren there to poke me and prod me to remind me that I really did want to go all the way to the top. We all need friends to cheer us on when times get tough or when we feel we can't do it. Hopefully we all remember that we have a friend who never leaves us, as hard as the road may get, as difficult as the challenge may be, our Savior, Jesus Christ is always beside us. He cheers us on and knows the deep potential for excellence that is within all of us. He knows how hard the road is because he walked it himself. He knows how to succor us.
So this year..........
- I may not loose 20 lbs.... (although I really am going to try!)
- I may not really live on a budget... (although I married a financial analyst...so that will help!)
- I may not have sparkling clean cabinets and closets..... (although today I did organize my sock drawer!)
- I may not do scrapbooks..... ( but I made my son a great memory book of our trip to China for Christmas!)
- I may not cook more often....(although I made a mean pulled pork today in the crock pot!)
- I may not become a better person.......(actually, the chances of me becoming better are in my favor.....as long as I try....a little bit... every day.....)